Absolutely. 300 heterosexual men completed my comprehensive survey on anal sex, and 80% of these heterosexual men enjoy receiving some kind of anal stimulation during sex from their partner.

68% of these men like their partner’s finger on their own anus during sex, and 40% of the men in these heterosexual couples enjoy receiving full anal penetration from a sex toy.

Of the heterosexual men who have tried pegging, 91% say they enjoy it. And 50% of all heterosexual men in the survey said that they wanted to try pegging. Only 12% of the men had actually tried it.

IMPORTANT NOTE: Exploring anal will NOT impact your sexual orientation in any way. Any sex act between a man and a woman is a heterosexual sex act. Also, I’m a heterosexual man who has explored a lot of anal, and I am still VERY and only sexually attracted to women. 

59% of the women who completed my comprehensive anal sex survey said they have experienced an anal orgasm. (59% of almost 300 women).

67% of the women in the survey who have had an anal orgasm said they had one while being penetrated by a penis (in comparison to other methods like fingering & analingus).

The second and third most common ways these women had anal orgasms were through receiving fingering (49%) and via a sex toy (41%). Obviously all of these percentages add up to over 100% – that means that many of these women have had multiple anal orgasms with a variety of stimulation techniques.

So yes. It’s possible. 🙂

This course is designed for every man. For transparency, I am a heterosexual male, and because I teach from a combination of my personal experience and in-depth research, there is more discussion in this course about heterosexual anal experiences.

For example, the personal stories I share in this course all have to do with women. The anal penetration demo is done on a female sex doll, and I often share survey data from women who have sex with men. That being said, I celebrate all sexual orientations, and the vast majority of this course applies to all bodies & orientations. If you are gay or bi or anything other than heterosexual, you are welcome here!

There are certain safety measures gay and bi men should specifically consider taking to ensure safety when having sex with other men (because of the heightened risk of HIV transmission). Specifically, taking a pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) in the proper way reduces the risk of getting HIV from unprotected anal sex by 99%. I can’t speak to this in-depth because it’s outside of my personal experience, but my friends who are gay and bi swear by this.

The butt is the great equalizer. Every person of of every sexual orientation, gender and biological sex has an ass hole. And all of our ass holes are wired for orgasmic pleasure. 🙂

93% of women who have received penetrative anal sex have experienced pain during anal. It’s very common. I assume the same can be said for men who have been penetrated too (I experienced pain in my first few pegging attempts too, before I understood anal anatomy and the steps necessary to ensure success).

Anal sex does NOT have to hurt (and it shouldn’t).

If anal penetration hurts, it means something is wrong. If anal sex hurts, you’re probably going too fast, or not using enough lubrication. You do NOT need to “push through” any pain, and you should never use any numbing creams.

After this course you’ll never have to wonder about how to prepare for anal play again. You’ll be able to confidently give and receive highly pleasurable and 100% pain-free anal of any kind.

IF you approach anal play with care and intentionality, and you learn all of the anatomy, techniques and best practices needed to have truly pleasurable anal, then yes – it can be very safe.

And, anal also comes with its own unique risks to you and your partner’s physical and sexual health (that are actually pretty easy to navigate):

● Receptive anal sex comes with a higher transmission rate of sexually transmitted infections for the receiving partner (due to the thin lining in the anal canal).

● Anal intercourse comes with a higher risk of bacterial infections than vaginal intercourse (there is e. coli in the anal cavity of most healthy people).

● Lots of people say anal sex hurts, and it very much can! When anal is done without basic preparation, without lots of lube, and without a large enough amount of time for the anus to relax open, the risk of injury is real. Tears and anal fissures can happen, and they hurt. The good news is when you follow this course, you’ll be having pain-free anal in no time. 

There is no such thing as too much lube with anal. Use a LOT of lube, and add more before you think you need to. In terms of your lube options, most people don’t recommend using water-based lubes because they dry out and feel sticky. I agree. Most people recommend using silicone-based lubes because they’re silky smooth and last a long time. You will need lube for this course.

Some oil-based lubes can work well too. It all depends on what kind of toy or tool you’re using. For example, you don’t want to use silicone lube on a silicone butt plug, because the interaction of the silicone will cause a break-down of the surface of the toy. You also don’t want to use any oil-based lube with latex condoms because the oil can break down the latex and cause the condom to break. 

Many men say that exploring anal (on the receiving end) was the key to successfully having their first non-ejaculatory orgasm. I do recommend anal self-penetration to all men in my Orgasmic Mastery Course, because I do think it’s a useful and powerful step to take in the process of sexual mastery.

And to be clear, learning to have an orgasm without ejaculation is NOT a main focus of this course. Learning how to do this consistently takes a good amount of practice over time, and if that’s something you’re interested in, I highly recommend checking out my Orgasmic Mastery Course.

You never have to do anything you don’t want to. That being said, I will encourage you to do this for a couple of reasons:

1 – If you’ve never been penetrated, you don’t truly understand what it’s like. That means you have room to improve as a lover. Penetrating yourself will give you an embodied wisdom of this process, and this will make you a much better lover whenever you penetrate anybody else.

2 – The amount of pleasure you can experience through receiving anal penetration is beyond words. Once you get over any stigma or limiting beliefs around this, your pleasure will exponentially increase. Anal masturbation can open up a lot for you. Why? Because you have a ton of nerve endings in your anal region – wired for orgasmic pleasure.

3 – The energetic healing, opening, freedom, aliveness and personal transformation that’s possible through literally opening your root is massive too. Until you have experienced this firsthand, it’s not really possible to understand what I’m talking about. You’ll just have to take my word for it.

Let me know within 3 days of purchasing this course and I’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked. Because of the structure of this course, after these first 3 days, refunds will not be issued.

For years to come. If you have a hot date 6 months or a year from now and you want to explore anal with them, you can just log into the course and get a quick refresher. There is no expiration date.

When someone talks about the male g-spot, what they’re really talking about is the prostate. Some people call this the p-spot, and it’s inside the anal cavity – located in a similar anatomical position to where the g-spot is located within the vaginal canal. You can see a visual graphic of this higher up on the page in the “Prostate Pleasure” section.

Prostate stimulation can be insanely pleasurable when done well. If you want to have a full-body orgasm that shakes the earth, try stimulating your prostate while you have an ejaculatory orgasm. It’s the fastest way to full-body orgasm I’ve found.

It can be deep, full-body, mind-blowing, heart-expanding, explosive, almost-overwhelming and rolling like waves that crash over and over again.

To put it in simple terms, prostate orgasms can be 20x more pleasurable than the typical ejaculatory orgasm. That figure isn’t based on anything other than the subjective experiences of myself and many men I’ve talked to. 

In this course you’ll learn how to have a prostate orgasm, and there’s a ritual/practice that’s specifically about this too.

58% of the women who completed my anal survey say they like receiving full penetrative anal sex from a man. Some women even prefer anal intercourse over vaginal sex.

95% of the women who completed my survey said that they like receiving some kind of anal pleasure from their partner. That’s a super high number.

And to be fair, my surveys are a bit skewed because someone needs to be open-minded enough to actually fill out a survey on anal sex in the first place… but nonetheless it’s safe to say that many (but not all) women like anal.

Pegging is a term that refers to a sex act in a heterosexual couple where the woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates the man. This term was coined by sex columnist Dan Savage after asking his podcast listeners (Savage Love) to come up with and vote on a term that best described this act.

Now when someone asks what does it mean to peg someone? You can help spread the good word.

Interesting fact: heterosexual men who have been pegged make significantly more money than heterosexual men who have never been pegged. That’s a hell of a claim right? I found that correlation when analyzing the data from my anal survey. Obviously correlation does not equal causation… but it’s an interesting statistic for sure. I’ll let you ponder that one for a bit…

This is basically a modern slang term that refers to any kind of anal play. Anal fingering, rimming (analingus), prostate stimulation, pegging and anal sex are all contained in the term butt stuff.

Often known as rimming, eating ass, or giving a rimjob, analingus is technically defined as oral sex performed on the anus. Basically, it’s when you lick your partner’s anus in a sexual context (of if they lick yours). It’s one of the sex acts that weirds people out the most, but it can feel absolutely incredible to receive this. 

And it can be highly erotic – in part because it’s so taboo for most people, and because we all have a ton of nerve endings that are wired for pleasure in our anal region – anus specifically.

Obviously you’ll only want to do this after the receptive partner has showered and thoroughly cleaned this part of their body.

The term prostate milking refers to the process of directly massaging the prostate until some prostatic fluid is released out of the penis. This fluid is smooth and clear, and it typically makes up about 20-30% of semen volume during an ejaculatory orgasm.

The process can be pleasurable, but it doesn’t have to be. Some people do this for purely utilitarian, health-oriented reasons – to keep their prostate healthy. Some people say prostate milking helps relieve prostatitis symptoms. I haven’t personally had any experience with this, but it’s supposedly possible.

Men who practice semen retention might want to explore prostate milking to help cycle these fluids without having a full ejaculatory orgasm.

So popular that Harvard University now offers a regular anal sex course to its students called “What What in the Butt: Anal Sex 101.” Pretty cool eh?

The statistics on just how many people have tried anal sex vary, but one thing is clear: the amount of people having anal sex is increasing over time. Or maybe everyone has been having anal sex the whole time, and people are slowly becoming open enough to tell researchers about it. 😀

If you’re asking is anal a sin, then I’m guessing you’re coming from a Christian background. Within Christianity, there are a VERY WIDE range of perspectives on this. Some Christians say it’s a sin, and other Christians celebrate it. To me that means there is no absolute… it’s all a matter of perspective, and you get to choose your own.

My personal belief is that any adults engaging in any consensual sexual experiences should be celebrated. Sex is beautiful. Pleasure is beautiful. Life is beautiful. We’re literally wired for pleasure in our butts. Why not enjoy it? 😀